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Dealing with Loss: Losing a Loved One is Hard, Fighting Back is Harder

Dealing with Loss: Losing a Loved One is Hard, Fighting Back is Harder

It is not easy to deal with the loss of a loved one. Yet it is something you must learn because, sadly, it reaches a point where the situation is out of your control. Grieving is natural, especially if the deceased was close to you; so don’t try to convince yourself otherwise. But again, there’s an extent to which the mourning is considered harmful to you who’s still alive. Of course, having to live on without someone you were so used to is a challenge, but it is possible. Here’s a guide through the healing process.

Dealing with Loss: Losing a Loved One is Hard, Fighting Back is Harder

Losing a Loved One is Hard, Fighting Back is Harder

Take a Step at a Time

While coping with a loss may feel impossible during the first days, recovering from grief is important for your physical and emotional health. And because we are all different; there’s no fixed time frame or a perfect way to get through grief.

Also, it helps to learn that grief is a messy back and forth process— sometimes you feel like you’ve completely gotten over it, then all over sudden something happens that breaks you down all over again. For example, if the death was wrongful and hasn’t been punished, it may come back to you time and again. To handle such death cases, you can get help from a qualified attorney whom you can find from sites like

A wide range of grief recovery techniques has worked for different people. Others require special attention and must undergo a personal recovery process. So if you’ve been struggling with grief here’s how to heal from it.

Care for your Body –keep fit, eat well, get enough sleep

It helps to pay attention to your physical and emotional health when mourning a loved one.

Stress can have significant adverse impacts on your body, so it’s critical to practice self-love as you grieve. Don’t push away a plate; eat up the little you can and supplement with vitamins. Take morning jogs or evening walks; it’s a great way to connect with nature and recuperate.

Put yourself to sleep anytime you’re idle and in deep thoughts. It might not be easy to do, but sleeping on a regular basis may help.

Don’t grieve alone – seek support

Do not seclude yourself from others when mourning. While they may not know what to do or say to make you feel better, it’s crucial that you accept the support and comfort they offer. At times, being around people who understand your situation can be helpful.

You can also join a grief support center or community church to help you heal. Or if you’re an introvert, consider professional bereavement counseling from an expert.

Give yourself time—it may be the perfect healer for you

While seeking support is vital, sometimes you should have faith in time; it has proven to be the healer of all— even the worst. So don’t fight it, just give yourself ample time to mourn.

Look forward to starting afresh when you feel you’re ready

Recovery may sometimes seem unachievable. But in the end, you’ll have to come to terms with the status quo. Perhaps, this is why men move on faster than women do— the ability to understand that; while we’re still here, life must go on.

So when you feel you can start afresh, take time to accept new people in your life. Be gentle and approachable and associate with people who understand and accept you.

Brandy Ellen is a born and raised NH resident who enjoys living life to the fullest. Raising 3 kids and a pug, Brandy spends her free time writing for her two blogs – ParentInfluence and Brandy EllenWrites. Brandy is also a ghostwriter for other blogs, click here to hire Brandy to write for you.

5 comments found

  1. All we can really do is take one day at a time when something like this happens to one of our friends/family members. Life sucks when someone you love dies. Everyone grieves differently and it’s life give or take.

  2. Accepting help after you’ve experience loss can be so hard, but it’s so important for your long-term emotional health. After that, it just takes time.

  3. Getting support is so important. When my mom died it was something that saved me. I was 16 and needed it. This is some fantastic advice!

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