For a long time, I struggled with the idea of fitting in. I tried to find my place, to align with a label that made sense, to pick a side that felt comfortable. But every time I thought I had found my \”group,\” something inside me resisted. It felt unnatural, as if I were forcing myself into a mold that wasn’t meant for me. And then, one day, I just let it go. The idea of fitting in lost its meaning because I realized something profound:
we are all souls having a human experience. We are meant to be united. Anything that keeps us thinking in terms of separation is not our natural state.
Seeing from the Middle Ground
Once I released the need to belong to a specific label, I found myself standing in a space of curiosity rather than division. This middle ground allows me to see people as they are, without judgment. I have my own morals, my ethical compass, but at the core of it all, I simply believe in protecting each other’s soul light.
Every person has a path, and I am not here to interfere, dictate, or judge how they walk it. I am not Source. It is not my job to determine someone else’s worth, nor is it theirs to determine mine.
Instead, I have learned the beauty of healthy boundaries. Boundaries do not mean separation—they mean protection of energy, alignment with one’s purpose, and knowing when to take a step back. There are people who may still be struggling with their own light, and I am not always meant to be their guide.
Sometimes, the most loving thing I can do is remain at a distance, allowing them to grow in their own time without interference.
Living Moment to Moment with Love
When we stop trying to fit into categories and instead embrace each moment as it comes, we open ourselves to something deeper: love. Not the kind of love that demands conformity, but the kind that sees and accepts others as they are. We no longer feel the need to pick sides, to engage in the battles that humanity has created to keep us divided. Instead, we learn to live from the light within our souls.
Here’s how you can start embracing this way of being:
- Release the Need to Belong to a Label – The moment you realize you are not confined to any one belief system, group, or identity, you will find freedom. You are not just one thing—you are a soul experiencing life.
- Practice Curiosity Instead of Judgment – When faced with someone who thinks or acts differently than you, ask yourself, “What can I learn from this?” instead of reacting with resistance.
- Set Healthy Boundaries – You don’t have to engage with everyone. Some people are still on their journey, and you are not required to fix, save, or be affected by their struggles. Love them from a distance if needed.
- Live in the Present Moment – Rather than getting caught up in the drama of human-created divisions, take life one moment at a time. Approach each situation with love, knowing that the only thing that truly matters is the energy you bring into the world.
- Honor the Light in Others, Even if It’s Dim – We all have moments where our light flickers, where we struggle, and where we feel lost. Instead of seeing these moments in others as faults, recognize them as part of the journey. Offer grace, and if needed, step back while still holding them in a space of love.
At the end of the day, the world does not need more division. It needs more light. And that light starts with you, standing in the space of unity, compassion, and understanding. Let go of the pressure to fit in, and instead, just be. Be the presence that brings warmth, love, and clarity. Because that is what we are here for—to walk this human experience together, with open hearts and a shared light.
You are not alone. We are all here together. Let’s choose love.