There was a time when I viewed everything through a lens of “good” or “bad,” constantly measuring my experiences and self-worth based on this arbitrary scale. It was exhausting—like I was always chasing happiness or success, or trying to avoid pain and failure. But one day, I began to ask myself: What if none of it is inherently good or bad? What if it all just… is?
It was a profound shift in perspective, one that has since transformed how I approach life. I started to realize that the labels we place on situations, people, or even ourselves are just that—labels. When I stopped categorizing everything as right or wrong, positive or negative, I opened up space for something much deeper: the understanding that we are all in this together, bound by a shared existence as spiritual beings.
This shift wasn\’t about becoming indifferent. On the contrary, it allowed me to feel more connected to life and to others. I came to see that we’re all walking this journey side by side, each of us with our own struggles, joys, and lessons. We’re all one. No one is “better” or “more special” than anyone else, and when we stop separating ourselves from others, we can live with a lightness that frees us from the weight of comparison and judgment.
Living with this mindset helps me walk in light. It’s not about ignoring the hardships of life, but about understanding that the flow of life is what it is. Pain comes, but so does joy. Challenges arise, but so do moments of clarity and peace. When we stop fighting against what is, we can step into a space of acceptance and presence.
This state of mind brings incredible freedom. When I stopped trying to place myself above or below others, I started to show up differently in the world. I began to live more fully, without the weight of self-imposed expectations. I found joy in the simplest moments, recognizing that each day offers a chance to be part of something greater than myself—this shared human experience.
So, if you want to live more joyously, start by letting go of the need to label everything. Realize that nothing is inherently good or bad; it just is. And in that acceptance, find peace. When you recognize the oneness that connects us all, you’ll naturally begin to walk in light, living from a place of openness and love. You’ll stop comparing, stop competing, and instead embrace each moment for what it offers: an opportunity to simply be.
In this space of \”being,\” you\’ll find yourself free to live more fully, not held back by fear or self-judgment. You’ll discover that living with this mindset doesn’t just bring you peace—it brings a deeper connection to others and to life itself. We are all in this together, and when we live in that awareness, we can truly shine.