Dating can be a lot of fun! Getting to meet new people, going out to new places, doing new things and more. The stress of figuring out if you are on the same page, what to wear, meeting the parents, that can all be pretty stressful. Once you fall in love you get settled into the relationship a bit more, you both are on the same page, and life can be more relaxed and your not afraid to be yourself. Being in love goes deeper than that initial feeling that you get when you first meet someone, it is a commitment of two people who have the same goal in the long haul and can remember that goal even … [Read more...]
Boundaries, Communication and Doing too Much
Recently I have been listening to some positive, inspirational and motivational talks on YouTube. Since the radio stopped working in our vehicle, the cell phone setup on dashboard out of site is used to have a YouTube playlist playing for something to listen to. At first I used this method to listen to music, that’s the whole reason I need a radio working in my vehicle, I use music to transition from various tasks in my life and since I no longer do that within the home – having something play in the car in between my various tasks needs to happen. Driving in the vehicle to and from school for … [Read more...]
Walking Away is Not Actually The Easy Solution
I’ve never understood why so many people say it’s easier just to give up and walk away. Nothing in my life has ever been easier by simply getting up, walking away and moving on. That is always the most difficult decision for me. The easy way “out” for me is to stick through any situation until I am completely drained of inner peace, happiness, and sanity. I will keep going whether it’s a relationship, friendship or business situation until I am so depleted that I feel like I am completely lost. Walking away? No, that’s never easy for me. Walking Away is Not so Easy Consider this, when … [Read more...]
Ways to Make Him Feel Special
I am sure it is safe to say the biggest thing most of us want in a relationship is to feel special and loved. Below I am going to share ways to make him feel special! Go out of your way to show him a little extra love, so that he knows how much you care and appreciate him! If you love the little things he does for you, then why not return the favor and do little things for him as well! Any man loves to feel desired in the relationship. They want to feel needed and wanted, it helps with their self-confidence. If your man doesn't feel like he is needed, it could put a strain on your … [Read more...]
One Thing About Life
As we grow older, we start to gain experiences. I, for one, have been someone who can read people pretty well. I can sense when someone is genuine or not so genuine. I know when someone has deep rooted issues that make them be who they are, a not so kind person. I know when there are unresolved issues that make a person who they are today. One thing about life is that our experiences, whether good or bad, define the very person we have grown to be today. Everyone Makes Mistakes I know that everyone makes mistakes, to stand there pointing the finger at another citing their wrongs without … [Read more...]
Resolution for Embracing Chaos
I’m reaching, I’m stretching, trying hard to find some positive in the chaos that has been my life lately. As I search to find that positive Brandy, the one I worked so hard to be, I am finding difficulty. Each time I climb up just a little bit and start to feel a bit more positive, chaos strikes again. Currently, I have a substantial amount mom life stuff going on. My main priority in life is kids, so when one if not two or three have issues, stuff for me to help work through – I am there. Currently, I have two kids with stuff that needs to be dealt with, while one is less emotionally trying … [Read more...]
Experiences, Intuition and Wisdom
Sometimes you have to do a lot of head-butting and soul searching while you are stared in the face with chaos. As an adult, you can’t just slip away into your bedroom and leave the adult world behind. Each day you have something that requires your attention. So how do you work through the internal chaos that consumes you to sort things out and come to a reasonable decision? Each of us will go about it differently and each of us may be dealing with different internal chaotic issues. How do you share a one size fits all approach to an issue that isn’t one size fits all? I suppose you … [Read more...]
How Traveling Mends a Broken Relationship
Relationships and marriages take real work; I am quickly finding this out. The cool thing about my current relationship is that I truly feel like we both are on the same page of understanding we want the future together which means we will have to compromise, communicate and accept moments when we simply don’t like each other. Think about two human beings, each are different in how they look, how they think and what they believe in. Two human beings trying to be in a long term relationship can obviously lead down some troubling paths, but these troubling paths don’t have to be the end of the … [Read more...]
Thoughts Matter: The Reality Room vs the Depreciation Room
You know, it’s not about hanging out in the deprecation room, it’s more about x,y and z happened. Also, a,b, and c happened. These are realities. This is more like hanging out in the reality room. That room where you try to put together pieces of a puzzle. This puzzle is made up from scenarios that occurred where perhaps you felt an emotion. They can be good, bad or mediocre emotions, but you felt something none the less. One must hang out in the reality room every so often to determine if things are going fairly or not. Consider the pros and cons. To also take one’s self back to a place where … [Read more...]
Unknown Ways to Mend a Broken Relationship
A broken relationship can occur over time. The two of you have worked hard to push forward towards future goals, dreams and lifestyle changes. In time, perhaps your partner and you have grown distant or goals adjusted in a way that you were moving forward apart, rather than together. Broken relationship issues can happen to the best of couples and it can happen to two people who are deeply in love. Today I wanted to share few unknown ways to mend a broken relationship so that you can reconnect, rejuvenate and come back together without stress. Meditation Often times when a relationship … [Read more...]
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